Pattaya Trip Report
Got back from a 10 day trip to Pattaya, Thailand. A moment of backdrop. Having never done p4p before, and working overseas, went to Bangkok Christmas 2014 for a 4 day break. Reading up ahead of time I knew to keep my head in place. After seeing 2 girls, went back to the first, saw her the rest of the time.
Bar Girl Love Story
Went back to Thailand 2 months later, and fast forwarding, she wound up convincing me she loved me, I loved her, I was paying to support her and her family. When in July I actually asked her to move in with me overseas, that shattered the illusion (created from the very beginning when she insisted she would “go with me anywhere”) that it was really anything but for money.
So spending most of 2 months heartbroken but basically over it (okay I was the sap that you hear about all the time) I went this time to simple Pattaya. Nothing to do but bars, go go bars (not nearly as good as Bangkok’s Soi Cowboy) and sex. But it does have tons and tons of open air bars. I was determined to get as much fucking, and hopefully blow jobs, as I could for my money. The bar girls want you to spend as much time buying drinks as possible (off of which they get a commission, in addition to the long time money you are already paying).
First Short Time
So I roll in on a Monday morning at 7 am after a 20+ hours flight. After a long nap and playing pool at a couple of bars I stroll into an open air bar down by the beach, which is open relatively early. I begin talking to two relatively attractive woman in late 20s, early 30s (I am in early 50s). This is about 3:30 in the afternoon. I negotiate, using a little bit of English and Google translate, a short time back at my room.
Then Long Time
We get back there and while her English is very limited she is also quite reserved at the beginning. But after a slow start she gets pretty into it and it goes quite well. I still have a bit of jet lag. After sex, she does not leave but stays around for a full hour or more heavily caressing, etc.. Although I was only going to short time this one, and then after dinner search for more I ask her to go long time for the night as the attitude is so good. After a bit more time in bed we go to dinner.
A bit awkward as she only knows a few words, and I use Google translate. Back to the room, another round of f***ing, and go to sleep early as I am tired. In the morning I am not sure when she is going to leave, and as we cannot talk really I get some more sex when we wake up. I’m older, and I’m using up my stored resources I know but she is right there. At breakfast we still do not talk and she leaves. If we could talk maybe we hang out, but hey a whole day of silence would be a bit much.
Bars, Only thing to do
After some more sleep I wonder around the beach a bit, find out there really is nothing to do there but the bars (only tours are really for the Chinese, English language tours done). I play a number of rounds of pool with a number of bar girls, none of whom can say more than a few words of English. Find one at 6 who does speak English, but she says she is at end of shift and wants to go home.
Go to next bar, a 23 year old talks me up, asks if I am interested, then goes to the bathroom. Comes back, says her period has not quite stopped (this at 7), and asks me to come back at 1 am to see if she can go with me. (Yeah, I am going to wait). Go to next bar, find an attractive woman (but type who I find is high maintenance), but can get her only for short time not long time. After sex, which was great with her very tight pussy, she seemed to spend more time with her makeup than we spent in bed.
Round Two, Another long time
Since it was still only 9, and I was wide awake having slept in until 2:30 I went back out visiting bars. A 24 year old, who looked more like an American Indian in her style of dress with a fringed shirt, beckoned me in. She spoke excellent English with an American accent, she picked up from movies. She was attractive and young, but talking with her for what turned out to be 3 hours she had a fresh, vibrant attitude.
I thought she would be great to hang out with for several days. I had already fucked 4 times in 30 hours, so I didn’t think I could again. But I wanted to be with her for the next several days. So I asked her for long time for 2 days (she even suggested 2 days when I said how long I would be there) and we went back to my room at 3 am. Well, I could get it up, but after 20 minutes could not finish.
I then made the huge mistake of trying to make her feel good by telling her it was not her fault. I told her that I already had sex earlier that evening, and then for some reason I told her that I already had sex 4 times in the previous 2 days (actually previous 30 hours, but I said 2 days). Her face looked shocked. Maybe since I am new to this, but I thought this is the sex industry, and this is what guys pay for. I go to sleep wake up a little later with our hands holding. She is holding my hand down tightly, so tensely. I go down to eat her out to relax her, which did not help.
My wild and crazy week in Pattaya was a pussy-smashing success!
Late in the morning I am rubbing her, trying to wake her up, nothing. Finally at 12:30, she gets straight out of bed (none of this slowly wake up) takes a shower, and puts her clothes straight on. I ask her to come to bed first. She says she is hungry. I get dressed and as we are going into the lobby she says she has to take care of stuff. As she gets her ID the security guard says something and laughs. As we step out she goes she might be back at 4, but does not think I can last until then. The tables were turned on me.
On the Rebound
Well, after essentially being turned down while offering to pay found another bar girl later that day who I wound up staying with for 7 days. About 28, beautiful face, excellent tits, a little extra weight around the middle. In the end she was good at playing me.
The night I met her at the small bar she was full of fun, rubbing me up and dancing on the pole. Going back to the room at night had some decent sex. But the following evening, after spending hours at many bars (maybe from 5 pm to 2 am) she basically passes out or falls asleep, no sex. In the morning, around 7 or so I have to press for mid morning (middle of the night?) sex. After breakfast I have to ask her not to drink so much.
The next night, as we get into bed about 3:30 as we start sex she insists she is hungry. I say no, and continue. She then practically pushes me off. I walk over to the 7 Eleven and grab something. As I walk back I am flaming mad. She apologizes. A few hours later (it is daylight) she asks if I am still mad, as I am quietly fuming, and takes my dick and shoves it in without a condom (we all know we should not do this, but oh does it feel so much better). This does calm me down. I was going to kick her out, but I give her another chance.
Drunk Bar Girls
This pattern of falling asleep, or even vomiting, happens almost every night. Going to bed the 7th night, as she is drunk again, she tells me how she hates having sex when going to bed. She is too tired so she does what she can to avoid it. Usually gets away with it, and the guy is then in the morning often too hung over to want sex then.
I was wondering how often does this happen?
In the morning I was so pissed off I kicked her off, the last day even though I had basically paid for the remaining time. Found a women later that morning for a few hours.